Sunday 15 March 2015

BECOMING A LIKABLE PERSON


Those who do we'll, do so on the heels of competition. There's need for competition to be managed because it has a tendency to go the wrong way. We should allow ourselves to be challenged. One of the things that help is skills. All of your goals and plans have to filter into habits. Habits determine the quality of your life. To build habits, we need to acquire skills backed with commitment. Skill helps you move fast.
We cannot afford to be lazy, it’s too expensive. We have to be able to have an intensive work ethic.
You must be no one in something. Find that thing! Acceleration requires clarity and certainty of destination and also certainty of arrival time.
One of the things that will help you move forward is to be liked
2Timothy 2:24, Titus 1:7...

HABITS TO BECOME A LIKABLE PERSON
Tactics and skills should flow from purpose, not just peripheral
Habits are connected to goals - mission - vision - purpose

1. Like people: Gal 6:7 Start it. Give what you want to receive. Don't be transactional, be transformational. To be interesting, be interested.

2. Don't be intimidating. Make meeting people more about them, than about you. Let people feel honoured meeting you. Step down on your sense of importance. Phil 2:5-8.

3. Embrace the power of touch. Touch breaks down the wall of strangeness.

4. Let people talk about themselves. Be someone they can talk to about their life. Don't ask for too many details too soon.

5. Appreciate people. Validate them.

6. Be careful not make requests too soon. You don't get things because you want things, you get things because you are worth them. Even when you don't want things, you get them when you’re worth them.

7. Be productive. Go the extra mile.


8. Be agreeable. If you must disagree, do so without disagreement

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