Monday 24 November 2014

HABITS OF GRATITUDE

Gratitude is an attitude of the heart; not words of the mouth. We take words because we can’t see the heart. Disparity between words and gestures make us suspect that what is in the heart is not what is being expressed. If a person claims he is happy but at the same time is frowning and sighing, one is likely to doubt that the fellow is honest in claiming to be happy. Unfortunately, from infancy, we have been taught that gratitude is saying thanks. So we say thanks by rote without checking whether this is really the disposition of our hearts.

 As a result of this upbringing, we say thanks to God with the mouth and hope He hears and takes it. But God does not deal with our words, He is not like our fellow human beings. He deals with our hearts, 1Sam. 16.7. Thanksgiving is not “what to say” but “what to be”, Rom. 1.21. What you do flows from who you are. If you are thankful, you will say thanks but that thankfulness will come out in more ways than just what is said...

 There is a place for saying thanks. When you say thanks, you bring your faculties to a consciousness of what you have in the heart. Words give direction and expression to what is in the heart. However, what we have in our heart comes out in more ways than verbal expression. In the same way, gratitude manifests in other behaviours and not just in talking. The following are attributes of thankful people:

1.      They are other-driven and not self-driven, self-centredness and selfish.

2.      They know their lives and privileges do not belong to them. These are gifts from God. It is stupid to brag about a gift.

3.      They are purpose-driven. They know that God gave them their privileges for a reason. They find that reason and live according to it.

4.      They are never offended with anyone since they know that whatever anyone does against them will ultimately work for their good.

5.      They are never anxious for anything.

6.      They do their best where they are knowing they are on their way to their destiny.

7.      They are very joyful, loving and helpful.

8.      They don’t usurp authority. They are happy to have got where they are and don’t feel a pressure to take what is not given to them.

9.      They are not afraid to make attempts or take healthy risks in life.

10.  They are responsible for the outcomes of their lives. They know that God has provided them everything they need for life and that what is missing is their input.

Don’t just say thanks. Let it come out in actions.

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